Whether you found this blog through my Twitter, Niteflirt profile, or the magic of SEO, I'm glad you're here! My intention with this blog is to give you an insider-look into the life and mind of a nerdy libidinous sex worker. Let me introduce myself: My name is Vandee Lovelace. As of the writing of this post,… Continue reading Let’s start at the very beginning…
I've been a sex worker for five years. In that time, I've encountered a handful of "addiction clients". Addiction clients, for the purpose of this article, are either: self-professed addicts to sex work (of whatever form - I've done them all), or people who are obviously addicted and not capable of stopping in the face… Continue reading Addicted
CONTENT WARNING: Frank discussion of sexual violence, oppression, etc. First, let me define misandry. I particularly prefer this definition in the context of this article: Second, let me say this: I don't hate men. This is not an article about how I came to Mexico and discovered my hatred of men. But I did come… Continue reading Misandry and Other Misadventures in México
Greetings fellow cumpatriots, I've been out of the office (OOO) for quite some time now. I was still available on Niteflirt and my other usual mediums, but I couldn't bring myself around to make another podcast. It was just a lot of work, lacked direction, etc. So since I couldn't do it perfectly, I neglected… Continue reading XXX gone OOO
On this week's episode of Nothing New, I discuss a fateful encounter with my new friends Gray Hat, Kim, and radical compassion.
This week I talk about Thanksgiving, my sexual evolution post-Bible Belt, and the kids being alright.
I don't have the spoons for a kitschy introductory paragraph this week. You'll hear why in this week's episode.
This post features my podcast teaser on the myriad scientifically-proven positive effects of self-compassion.